I’m single and ready to mingle. Open to finding an incredible guy to settle down with, become the best of friends and experience life together. I’ve heard that it’s a good thing to be set up by a friend with a friend. If you know someone that has these qualities, then please let me know.

Here is my list:

Single

Straight

Black

Chocolate skin

Taller than me

Strong enough to protect me in a fight

Positive relationship with money

Saver

Best friend potential

Thinks before he acts

Able to clearly communicate his feelings

Open communication

Playful

Affectionate plus PDA

Accepts me the way I am, but also…

Encourages my growth

I am a priority

Appreciative

Active Christian

Has a church home

Attends service periodically

Texts in complete sentences

Calls frequently

Takes me out

Video call before meet and greet

Plans spontaneous outings

His name is on a lease or mortgage

Independent

1 child or less

Man of his word

Sense of humor

Finds me funny

Similar interests

Tolerates karaoke

Respectful

Role model for Mason

Good hygiene

Gives me an adequate amount of attention

Honest

Trustworthy

Faithful

Thoughtful

Notices the small things

Makes his interest in me obvious

Wants a relationship

Wants to get married…. eventually

Does not want more children

Cooks

Likes to clean

Gives compliments

Attractive to me

I feel safe with him

Has a social life and friends of his own

Good relationship with his family

Tenured employment

Ambitious

Actively working on goals

Optimistic

Brings positive energy

Able to hold a conversation

Supports my self care

Supports my social life

Degreed

Good credit

Positive friends

Comfortable with CBD

Consistent spicy sex life

Performs cunnilingus

Accepts infrequent blow jobs

Mature

Co-parents positively

Cordial with child’s mother

Equal partnership

Doesn’t have gender roles but does put the trash out

Compatibility

Active listener

Makes me happy

Is my friend first

Able to converse with others

Long list? Have I missed anything?

Lesson: I want what I want.

Question: What are your “must haves” in a significant other?